Thursday, August 9, 2012

Gay Mating Ritual


Gay Mating ritual 101



     There are multiple scenes where gay mating ritual could have taken place. Either it is live version on the street, in a bar, or an online version like cruising on fb, tweet, or a more specific gay dating site like pr, grinder, manjam, tagged to name a few.

     Gay Mating ritual could be frustrating. Especially if so much efforts has been given only to be disappointed on the performance in bed. Now, to avoid such disappointment, it is important to believe that it’s not the destination, it’s the journey that matters. Whenever you have a crush on someone, do not focus your mind on the end game, the sex but also enjoy all the ritual in bringing you closer to bed together with him.

     In mating ritual, how to know whether or not the guy interested in you? Remember, gay mating ritual could be so freaking complicated. The best way of handling it, is to keep it obvious, simple and be bold! You may start with building an eye contact with that guy. Make sure you land your eyes on him, and convey the signal that you are interested in him. At first do it slowly and not too obvious. Once you got him looking at your back, withdraw your eyes from him. The second time you look at him, if he looks back on you…do not take back your eyes. Try to stick to it. That time it would be good if you can smile at him. If he smiles back, it’s a good sign, and you better move your ass to him and start talking.

     There’s also this three step kinda thing. This can be practise if you are on the move. If you spotted someone that you taste, make an eye contact till you and him passing each other. After 3 steps turn back and look at him. If he’s also turn and look back at you…walla. Go to him, have a small chat..and who know you may have a fuck or two.

     Alert. In gay mating ritual, it’s not necessary for top gay to take the first move. A bottom gay in certain circumstances should make the first move. As a matter of fact, although top gay will be the dominant person in bed, in outside world it’s always bottom that will be in charge, especially in engaging a conversation. In plu world, top gay can be considered a rare species, so they tend to jual mahal, if you know what I mean.


Tough competition huh?


     Top gay and bottom gay. Argh…this is where in gay mating ritual it could get messy. Paramount to identify whether your potential is top or bottom. How to identify it? Unlike any other 101 reference, identifying top-bottom gay could be difficult, and it is something that you have to develop yourself. It’s gaydar kinda thing. However, if you are one flexy gay…thing would be much easier for you.

     It is also crucial not to lengthen your early step in mating ritual. Eye contact, chatting, going out…all those should be kept simple and fast. No need to have “fuck only after 3 dates” or “fuck after few months” kinda rules. For God sake, there is a tough competition out there. Stop wasting your time trying to develop feeling etc. before you actually get laid. Bottom line, wheneher you are looking for love, relationship or just a simple pleasure fuck, simple and fast approach is important. It’s ok to have sex even after first dates.

But then again…this is just my opinion. 

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